God has blessed me with an awesome wife and two beautiful children. I owe Him my life, and that's exactly what I am daily yielding to Him. I realize more and more each day how blessed I am and how good God is to me. With that in mind, I have learned to place her at the top of the list (just below God) and above all others in my life. As the the Lord commands me to love her just like Christ loves the church and gave His Life for it. It requires a high esteem and reserved place of my heart that only she could fill. i am thankful today more than ever for the gift of God in my life in the person of my bride...and I anciously anticipate the years to come.
12 years this March!
-SouLWorshiper
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Monday, January 25, 2010
Sunday, December 6, 2009
Building Stronger Marriages: Principle #1
Be Careful in choosing Relationships
It is really easy to become familiar with someone else who is not your spouse. Resist the urge to spend time flirting with other people. This is a door that if opened might cause u to look at alternatives to your own marriage should things get shaky and rough. You may think that now there is an escape route for you and lose the willingness to resolve. Guard this area and keep that door close. In addition, these types of relationships will cause your spouse to feel threatened. Protect your Marriage, and enjoy your life together.
More to Come.....
It is really easy to become familiar with someone else who is not your spouse. Resist the urge to spend time flirting with other people. This is a door that if opened might cause u to look at alternatives to your own marriage should things get shaky and rough. You may think that now there is an escape route for you and lose the willingness to resolve. Guard this area and keep that door close. In addition, these types of relationships will cause your spouse to feel threatened. Protect your Marriage, and enjoy your life together.
More to Come.....
Thursday, October 29, 2009
Signs of Pending Marital Disaster!!!!!
If You are ready for help NOW, click the image below.
Do you find yourself frustrated with your marriage, trying to make changes, only to find you are right back into the same old pattern?
Do you or your spouse frequently think about getting out of the marriage?
Are you and your spouse frequently engaged in an argument, often about nothing of importance, and find that there are rarely solutions?
Do you find yourself shocked that you were ever attracted to someone so different? Or conversely, do you think the big problem is that you are just too much alike for it to work?
Do you frequently find yourself feeling either unloved or disrespected?
Do you wonder how or if this crazy cycle can ever be ended?
Would you love to find a solution to these problems that would move your relationship to a healthy, Godly place?
Divorce and broken marriages is not God’s plan. God’s plan was for marriage to be a lifetime. As I’m sure you have heard often, in Genesis 2:24, God tells us that “for this reason, a man will leave his father and mother and be united with his wife. And the two people will become one body.” When we become one body, it is a forever thing.
Where is your relationship? Is it where you want it to be? Is it where your spouse wants it to be? Is it where God wants it to be?
Are you ready to have a different marriage? Are you ready to take the pieces God has given you and put them together in ways that God would want? God does not want division and pain, but love and support in your family.
Do you find yourself frustrated with your marriage, trying to make changes, only to find you are right back into the same old pattern?
Do you or your spouse frequently think about getting out of the marriage?
Are you and your spouse frequently engaged in an argument, often about nothing of importance, and find that there are rarely solutions?
Do you find yourself shocked that you were ever attracted to someone so different? Or conversely, do you think the big problem is that you are just too much alike for it to work?
Do you frequently find yourself feeling either unloved or disrespected?
Do you wonder how or if this crazy cycle can ever be ended?
Would you love to find a solution to these problems that would move your relationship to a healthy, Godly place?
Divorce and broken marriages is not God’s plan. God’s plan was for marriage to be a lifetime. As I’m sure you have heard often, in Genesis 2:24, God tells us that “for this reason, a man will leave his father and mother and be united with his wife. And the two people will become one body.” When we become one body, it is a forever thing.
Where is your relationship? Is it where you want it to be? Is it where your spouse wants it to be? Is it where God wants it to be?
Are you ready to have a different marriage? Are you ready to take the pieces God has given you and put them together in ways that God would want? God does not want division and pain, but love and support in your family.
Friday, October 16, 2009
Sisters.....10 Wonderful Ways to Express Your Love to Him - Part 1 (Take a Look)
Okay, yeah I know us brothers at times may have slighted you in the area of expressing our love creatively, but there is always more than one approach to getting what u want right. So I solicit to you that one way of sparking the expression of Love u desire in your life, and home is to be the initiator of such unselfish giving. You'll be surprised how much of an impact it will have in changing your life and bringing about the change you desire in your relationship. These are real simple, yet effective ways to make a difference. Give em a try.
1. After you use his car, fill the tank with gasoline.
2. Watch Him Work Out with Weights
3. Learn as much as you can about His Work
4. Make a tape recorded Love Letter for him
5. Fight the urge to call Him ten times a day...and win!
6. Leave his razors and tools alone
7. Decide that if he does a portion of the household chores that you
will not criticize the way he does them
8. Do not assume that all men are handy with tools. Do not expect him
to be able to do everything your father could. His father may have never
taught him how.
9. Purpose not to brag about your rich or smart relatives.
10. Never talk derogatorily or in bitterness to your children about your husband.
There are so much more that can be shared, just as you may have things you desire. In this quest to grow and to enjoy better marriages and relationships, I believe one of the most significant keys to it's success is unselfish giving to one another. That is all this is. Be willing to try and expect results. It's normally the small things that make the difference. Have fun and Enjoy.
-SoulWorshiper
1. After you use his car, fill the tank with gasoline.
2. Watch Him Work Out with Weights
3. Learn as much as you can about His Work
4. Make a tape recorded Love Letter for him
5. Fight the urge to call Him ten times a day...and win!
6. Leave his razors and tools alone
7. Decide that if he does a portion of the household chores that you
will not criticize the way he does them
8. Do not assume that all men are handy with tools. Do not expect him
to be able to do everything your father could. His father may have never
taught him how.
9. Purpose not to brag about your rich or smart relatives.
10. Never talk derogatorily or in bitterness to your children about your husband.
There are so much more that can be shared, just as you may have things you desire. In this quest to grow and to enjoy better marriages and relationships, I believe one of the most significant keys to it's success is unselfish giving to one another. That is all this is. Be willing to try and expect results. It's normally the small things that make the difference. Have fun and Enjoy.
-SoulWorshiper
Sunday, March 29, 2009
Congratulations from a 49-year Marriage...
A wonderful repost originally submitted by Dr. & Mrs. Joseph Slade. (used by permission)
Congratulations from a 49-year Marriage...
Most people go into marriage with high hopes and expectations. They marry in search of happiness and because they feel they are in love. They marry expecting physical comfort, thrills, excitement, fun, joy, stimulating companionship...in short, people really want a full and rewarding series of experiences, love, pleasure and happiness.
However, divorce is destroying families at an unprecedented rate - and for every divorce, there are hundreds of other homes that are woefully, and miserably unhappy. Homes where simple "spats" escalate into fists fights, knifings, wife beatings, child abuse, shooting, murders, suicide and homicides.
No one wants to live with heartbreak, arguments, fights or unpleasant scenes in public, or nasty rebellious children, physical and mental pain, economic failure, loneliness, frustration, and depression.
No one wants a hollow shell of a marriage or want to live together out of necessity, or for the children, financial security, or pressure from the church or family members. No one wants to live like strangers in a home where there is no joy, happiness or peace...unable to communicate, each going their own separate way, disgruntled and mad most of the time.
God intended that every marriage be successful. Therefore, the problem does not lie with God's plan for marriage. The problem is that couples don't know what God has said concerning marriage...or they know what He has said, but fail to apply what they know to be true.
More to come... Joe & Cookie
Congratulations from a 49-year Marriage...
Most people go into marriage with high hopes and expectations. They marry in search of happiness and because they feel they are in love. They marry expecting physical comfort, thrills, excitement, fun, joy, stimulating companionship...in short, people really want a full and rewarding series of experiences, love, pleasure and happiness.
However, divorce is destroying families at an unprecedented rate - and for every divorce, there are hundreds of other homes that are woefully, and miserably unhappy. Homes where simple "spats" escalate into fists fights, knifings, wife beatings, child abuse, shooting, murders, suicide and homicides.
No one wants to live with heartbreak, arguments, fights or unpleasant scenes in public, or nasty rebellious children, physical and mental pain, economic failure, loneliness, frustration, and depression.
No one wants a hollow shell of a marriage or want to live together out of necessity, or for the children, financial security, or pressure from the church or family members. No one wants to live like strangers in a home where there is no joy, happiness or peace...unable to communicate, each going their own separate way, disgruntled and mad most of the time.
God intended that every marriage be successful. Therefore, the problem does not lie with God's plan for marriage. The problem is that couples don't know what God has said concerning marriage...or they know what He has said, but fail to apply what they know to be true.
More to come... Joe & Cookie
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