Be Careful in choosing Relationships
It is really easy to become familiar with someone else who is not your spouse. Resist the urge to spend time flirting with other people. This is a door that if opened might cause u to look at alternatives to your own marriage should things get shaky and rough. You may think that now there is an escape route for you and lose the willingness to resolve. Guard this area and keep that door close. In addition, these types of relationships will cause your spouse to feel threatened. Protect your Marriage, and enjoy your life together.
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Showing posts with label Lasting Marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Lasting Marriage. Show all posts
Sunday, December 6, 2009
Friday, October 16, 2009
Sisters.....10 Wonderful Ways to Express Your Love to Him - Part 1 (Take a Look)
Okay, yeah I know us brothers at times may have slighted you in the area of expressing our love creatively, but there is always more than one approach to getting what u want right. So I solicit to you that one way of sparking the expression of Love u desire in your life, and home is to be the initiator of such unselfish giving. You'll be surprised how much of an impact it will have in changing your life and bringing about the change you desire in your relationship. These are real simple, yet effective ways to make a difference. Give em a try.
1. After you use his car, fill the tank with gasoline.
2. Watch Him Work Out with Weights
3. Learn as much as you can about His Work
4. Make a tape recorded Love Letter for him
5. Fight the urge to call Him ten times a day...and win!
6. Leave his razors and tools alone
7. Decide that if he does a portion of the household chores that you
will not criticize the way he does them
8. Do not assume that all men are handy with tools. Do not expect him
to be able to do everything your father could. His father may have never
taught him how.
9. Purpose not to brag about your rich or smart relatives.
10. Never talk derogatorily or in bitterness to your children about your husband.
There are so much more that can be shared, just as you may have things you desire. In this quest to grow and to enjoy better marriages and relationships, I believe one of the most significant keys to it's success is unselfish giving to one another. That is all this is. Be willing to try and expect results. It's normally the small things that make the difference. Have fun and Enjoy.
-SoulWorshiper
1. After you use his car, fill the tank with gasoline.
2. Watch Him Work Out with Weights
3. Learn as much as you can about His Work
4. Make a tape recorded Love Letter for him
5. Fight the urge to call Him ten times a day...and win!
6. Leave his razors and tools alone
7. Decide that if he does a portion of the household chores that you
will not criticize the way he does them
8. Do not assume that all men are handy with tools. Do not expect him
to be able to do everything your father could. His father may have never
taught him how.
9. Purpose not to brag about your rich or smart relatives.
10. Never talk derogatorily or in bitterness to your children about your husband.
There are so much more that can be shared, just as you may have things you desire. In this quest to grow and to enjoy better marriages and relationships, I believe one of the most significant keys to it's success is unselfish giving to one another. That is all this is. Be willing to try and expect results. It's normally the small things that make the difference. Have fun and Enjoy.
-SoulWorshiper
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
5 Steps to a Stronger, Loving, Lasting Marriage
5 Steps to a Stronger, Loving, Lasting Marriage
An Article Written by: Kenneth L. Martin Jr.
September 30, 2009
Marriage is a spiritual bonding and union that brings two hearts, and souls together, blending the thoughts, gifts, and passions of each to a wonderful melodious harmony. It is God's gift to mankind, though this thought is opposed by most of the society that we live in. With all of the negative stereotypes and oppositions to marriage, we often need to be reaffirmed and strengthened in our union to insure a lasting and loving life together. Today I offer 5 simple principles that have helped me and I believe will benefit you should you desire to maintain a healthy and happy relationship together.
1. Tell the Truth
It is very easy at times to avoid confrontation by withholding information from your spouse. This is not a good idea. Even though you may get an initial benefit of peace, later the dishonesty will manifest itself in frustration and possible feelings of isolation and misunderstanding. Ask God to soften your delivery, and to give you wisdom on how and when to speak the truth, but by all means be honest.
2. Date Him/Her
Just like you did when you first got together, it is imperative that you continue to spend time together just having fun and laughing. Do not allow the daily grind and rush to cause you to cease to look upon one another in the same loving and desiring way. Dating allows us to get out of the formailty and to just be ourselves. You get to see that smile and those dimples that attracted you. That way she walks, and the way he holds your hand. Make it fun and do it often.
3. Romance is Right
Write a letter, Send Flowers, Give a long hug, Kiss softly, Sing a song, take a walk, hold hands, give a massage, have a picnic, take a trip....and so on and so on...Don't let the fire die.
4. Don't be so predictable
If there is anything that can cause a marriage to go stale is predictability all the time. Sometimes, switch it up and do something that you haven't done before. Refuse to do the same thing over and over again, year in and year out. Surprise your mate with something new, maybe a gift, a trip, or just a night out. Pay attention to what they do and make a comment. Take notice of any changes and make a big deal out of it. Remember this is a life long journey…make it count.
5. Love the Lord thy God
Although I placed this at the end, I must say that this one is of upmost importance in all things. God provides the bridge that will get us over and hurdle or gulf of separation. As we grow together as a couple, it is necessary that we individually build on our relationship with the Lord. He will guide us in the stormy times and allow us to share the wonderful joys of the sunny occasions. He is the establisher of the marriage institute and our confession was made before Him. Trust Him to provide the peace, joy, and strength that will make our days together full and complete.
Copyright 2009, Kenneth L. Martin
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An Article Written by: Kenneth L. Martin Jr.
September 30, 2009
Marriage is a spiritual bonding and union that brings two hearts, and souls together, blending the thoughts, gifts, and passions of each to a wonderful melodious harmony. It is God's gift to mankind, though this thought is opposed by most of the society that we live in. With all of the negative stereotypes and oppositions to marriage, we often need to be reaffirmed and strengthened in our union to insure a lasting and loving life together. Today I offer 5 simple principles that have helped me and I believe will benefit you should you desire to maintain a healthy and happy relationship together.
1. Tell the Truth
It is very easy at times to avoid confrontation by withholding information from your spouse. This is not a good idea. Even though you may get an initial benefit of peace, later the dishonesty will manifest itself in frustration and possible feelings of isolation and misunderstanding. Ask God to soften your delivery, and to give you wisdom on how and when to speak the truth, but by all means be honest.
2. Date Him/Her
Just like you did when you first got together, it is imperative that you continue to spend time together just having fun and laughing. Do not allow the daily grind and rush to cause you to cease to look upon one another in the same loving and desiring way. Dating allows us to get out of the formailty and to just be ourselves. You get to see that smile and those dimples that attracted you. That way she walks, and the way he holds your hand. Make it fun and do it often.
3. Romance is Right
Write a letter, Send Flowers, Give a long hug, Kiss softly, Sing a song, take a walk, hold hands, give a massage, have a picnic, take a trip....and so on and so on...Don't let the fire die.
4. Don't be so predictable
If there is anything that can cause a marriage to go stale is predictability all the time. Sometimes, switch it up and do something that you haven't done before. Refuse to do the same thing over and over again, year in and year out. Surprise your mate with something new, maybe a gift, a trip, or just a night out. Pay attention to what they do and make a comment. Take notice of any changes and make a big deal out of it. Remember this is a life long journey…make it count.
5. Love the Lord thy God
Although I placed this at the end, I must say that this one is of upmost importance in all things. God provides the bridge that will get us over and hurdle or gulf of separation. As we grow together as a couple, it is necessary that we individually build on our relationship with the Lord. He will guide us in the stormy times and allow us to share the wonderful joys of the sunny occasions. He is the establisher of the marriage institute and our confession was made before Him. Trust Him to provide the peace, joy, and strength that will make our days together full and complete.
Copyright 2009, Kenneth L. Martin
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